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< 人的一生會遇上的四個人 >

2011-11-02T04:55:00.000-07:00

人生就是為了找尋愛的過程，

每個人的人生都要找到四個人

第一個是自己，

第二個是你最愛的人，

第三個是最愛你的人，

第四個是共度一生的人。

首先會遇到你最愛的人，然後體會到愛的感覺；

因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現最愛你的人；

當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，

也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。

但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；

你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；

最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；

而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，

只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。

你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？

沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，

可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，

他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；

同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你。

當一個人不愛你要離開你，

你要問自己還愛不愛他，

如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；

如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，

希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，

你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，

而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？

愛不是佔有，

你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，

但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。

換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，

讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，

如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：

愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，

絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，

萬一變不成就不愛他了。

真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，

你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；

真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。

畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；

分開是一種必然的考驗，

如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，

真愛是不會變成怨恨的。

兩人在談情說愛的時候，

最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾

我們為什麼要對方發誓，

就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，

而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：

海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!

明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；

就算會，也活不到那時候。

許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，

最好是承諾做不到的事，

反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，

請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”

在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；

講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。

你呢？找到了第幾個？

茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你？

引用網路文章和川普搭網 ...

----------我是分格線----------

看完這篇文章

我想到了很多很多事

的確

愛不能強迫

愛不能隨便

愛是要相信

愛是要考驗

這些 . . . . . .

可以在愛情或是感情上

得到很多的思考

這篇雖然不是我寫的

但我很喜歡這篇文章

似乎

真正寫到我的骨子裡了 !

Different layer of thinking

2011-08-22T23:50:00.000-07:00

There was a couple,after eleven years marriage,having the first child.This couple love each other more than before.Naturally,the child is the treasure of both. One day, the child at the age of two,when the husband going out,he saw there was a bottle of medicine which was opened on the table.Because he was in a rush,he shouted to his wife to take the opened medicine away,then he rushed going to work.At that time,his wife so busy working in the kitchen,then she forgpot what her husband told her to do.
Their child picked up the medicine bottle and feel so curious because the drug medicine was so colorful and attractive.Then the child drank the whole bottle of medicine.The medicine was so strong,even the adult can just drink a little bit only.Certainly,the child was overdose.The mom sent her child to hospital at once.However,there was no way to bring him back.The woman was so scared that her child was passing away.She don't know how to face her husband.When the nervous dad arriving the hospital,he was so upset to know this bad news.After staring his child's body, and then taking a glance on his wife,he said four words.
Guess what the husband said.....................................................??????

Answer: {I Love You Darling}
This reponse was so proactive {It means recontrolling the situation instead of controlling by the situation)
This husband is the genius of human relationship because the death of his son was the fact , even though they still continue blaming each other. It just aroused more heart breaking.Moreover,he 's not only losing his child ,his wife also losing a son too.
From this story,the theme is to expose the layers of human choice.The same tragedy,you can blame on someone or blaming yourself for good.However,the fact won't be change,It just change you and your coming life, carrying all the hurting feeling into your whole life. Vice Versa,puting down your hate,scare ,anger and your past.Bravely to face the future,the situation won't be bad like what you think.
Very simple story,but,how many people can act like this.When I heard the statement "I Love You Darling",I have a heavy feeling.This simple statement,but you need to have how long to train yourself,how big the capacity to accept people's mistake,how deep the human wisdom you have????Then you can say this powerful statement at this momment.Everyone have a sad matter that don't want anyone to know.What kind of method you choose to deal with it and how you deal with the future and the people around you.I want to share my feeling and blessing all my friend having smooth and happy forever.
1.When you came across your ture love,you need to do your best to take this opportunity to go with him.
Beause when he left,no way you can get it back.
2.When you came across your trustful friend,you need to get along with him peacefully,
Because he 's so hard to get a true friend in one's life.
3.When you came across someone helping you,you need to appreciate them,
Because they are your turning point in your life,
4.When you came across with someone you love before,you have to smile and be grateful
Because they make you to understand more about love.
5.When you came across with someone you hate,you have to smile and greet them
Because they make you more stronger.
6.When you came across with someone betray you,you have to chat with them,
Because ,if not him,you wont' understand the world today.
7.When you came across with someone you like,you have to praise for them
Because you like him, you must wish him happy all the time.
8.When you came across someone you know passing away,you have to thank them with you in your life
Because they were part of your wonderful memories.
9.When you came across someone that had misunderstanding before,you have to clear the misunderstand
Because you probably have that only chance to clarify yourself.
10.When you came acoss with someone that was your life partner now,you have to appreciate the way he love you.
Because you both have happiness and true love.

one of my businesses

2011-05-11T03:40:00.000-07:00

Jimmy Kong-I AM CHINESE

2007-11-25T05:47:00.000-08:00

http://cornermart.tripod.com/iamchinese.htm

Teach Kid's how to make pizza 1987

2007-11-25T03:25:00.000-08:00

China Trip to Hong Kong,Shanghai,Beijing

2007-11-25T03:21:00.000-08:00

Trip to Hong Kong

2007-06-19T15:06:00.001-07:00

Interview by News North

2006-11-30T04:20:00.000-08:00

MonkeyTree Strip Mall,Gas Bar & CarWash

2006-11-19T11:28:00.000-08:00

Jimmy Kong now in charge of Discovery Inn Hotel

2006-11-03T19:03:00.000-08:00

2006-10-26T04:23:00.000-07:00

MY Devil friend

2006-10-25T22:20:00.000-07:00

Jimmy with the sword

2006-10-20T01:22:00.000-07:00

Ways to win

2006-10-18T19:30:00.000-07:00

赚钱高手的八招

第1招：隔山打虎

　　这一招的要点是学会与别人合作，而不是什么事情都亲自去做。因为你不可能是位全才，要学会不纠缠于鸡毛蒜皮的小事。巨大的财富通常是有眼光的帅才同多才多艺的智者通力合作的结果，真正的赚钱高手通常是善于利用别人的能力赚钱的人。凡事亲力亲为只会分散你的精力，使你无法对全局作出判断。

　　第2招：当机立断

　　要赚钱必须果断，学会迅速地审时度势。快速决断能够使你占据领先优势，拖拖拉拉、畏首畏尾、不敢决断是赚钱之大忌，这会让你一次次贻误良机。

　　第3招：穷追猛打

　　成功者往往是持之以恒、埋头苦干的人，一个专心于目标并致力于此的人。做事有头无尾，遇到一点挫折就退缩是不可能获得成功的。要赚钱就不能怕辛苦，如此则成功可期。

　　第4招：眼观六路

　　这一招的要点在于注意与善于观察，对新观点、新事物要保持敏锐的头脑。可随身携带一个简便的本子，随时记下你发现的生财之道，有时间的时候加以整理，就会发现几个方法合在一起，就得出有价值的方案，然后迅速开始实施你的计划。

　　第5招：胆大心细

　　你必须认识冒险是有代价的。要知道世界上绝没有万无一失的赚钱之道。所谓“赚钱的生意不要抢”。盲目随大势，贸然作决定都是不可取的。要避免失败，就要处处小心，躲开可能碰到的陷阱。

　　第6招：借鸡下蛋

　　借钱赚钱，借鸡下蛋不丢人。赚钱的机会稍纵即逝，所以当机会来了，你一时又没有资本时，看准了不妨借钱出击。死守着有一分钱花一分钱的老观念将难成大事。

　　第7招：动如脱兔

　　无论在任何时候都要有时间观念，决定做一件事情以后，行动要迅速，绝不能把今天的事留到明天去做。时间就是金钱，拖沓的作风是赚钱的天敌，行动不敏捷很难适应现代市场的竞争。

　　第8招：创意制胜

　　努力开发你的创造力，围绕你的事业让思维不受拘束地展开联想。经营最可靠的是创意，一个好点子、好创意往往能使你的经营之路柳安花明，财富属于那些具有创意而又能把新观念付诸于行动的人！

2006-10-17T19:43:00.000-07:00

How you treat love????

2006-10-15T00:29:00.000-07:00

http://www.geocities.com/peonykong/beautifulmind2.htm

Me and Tiffany on year 2001

2006-10-14T18:14:00.000-07:00

(proactive behaviour)控制局面，而不被局面控制,it's beautiful

2006-10-14T18:10:00.000-07:00

This is a beautiful story I 've came across.

http://cornermart.tripod.com/beautifulmind3.htm

Chinese Peom

2006-09-26T06:57:00.000-07:00

舊夢逝去存眞情，

胸中自有百萬兵，

半壁江山黃刀取，

異國創業留英名，

立志我自求我道，

笑對東西南北風，

今朝黃金驛站扺，

明日鵬程萬鈞行

2006-09-25T06:11:00.000-07:00

My nick name policeguy in the web

2006-09-25T06:06:00.000-07:00

This is me,I am a real chinese.

Northern Lites Motel - Yellowknife

2006-09-25T05:40:00.000-07:00

This is the Motel I took over on August 5,2006.Another new challenge.
http://www.yellowknifehotel.com

2006-09-19T01:32:00.000-07:00

Monkey Tree Strip Mall & Gas Bar & Car Wash

2006-09-19T01:29:00.000-07:00

This is the venture which I have taken over for over five years.Well,see that double rainbow on the picture,that's real.

2006-09-19T01:25:00.000-07:00